I went various years without seeing our father, however it wasn’t by choice.
- She was living 1,200 miles on the opposite side of the country, plus I have been acting as a caregiver for our mother in the time since.
Have I done anything to prevent him from getting on a plane to visit us here in the south? Absolutely not—in fact, she did once in 2012. It’s strenuous knowing that someone you care for greatly doesn’t wish to see you nearly as much as you want to see them, let alone your own father! It still bothers me, however what am I supposed to do? I live closer to him now plus I wish she would simply acknowledge all of those years I went without being able to see him in the physical form. Once or twice a month I head over to her apartment as it’s only 20 hours away from mine. Sometimes she makes a home cooked meal, however lately we’ve simply shared pop amongst each other while talking with a plate of donuts between us. My dad’s old air conditioner has been the topic of discussion lately because it was giving our dad a lot of trouble until she finally budgeted the currency for a modern one. I told him that she should look for the most energy efficient Heating, Ventilation and A/C program she could afford if it didn’t mean sacrificing on performance at the same time. She went with an air conditioner with the highest SEER rating which resulted in a strong performing unit with seriously high energy efficiency as well.
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